Forever his "girlfriend"
Women today are so consumed with living in the moment their actually okay with being his forever girlfriend or girlfriend for the "moment". Instead of building toward a marriage we take on being the girlfriend who give up the benefits of marriage. I SPEAK from PERSONAL EXPERIENCE. Today, You may have her as a friend or you may be her. You know you don't see yourself spending the rest of your life with him. What if today was your last? Would you be satisfied with spending it with your current boyfriend? If no, Why are you settling with just being his girlfriend? Why not be single focus on God and work on being the best woman you can be while waiting on the man you will be spending your life with? Right now you're building soul ties with a man who will never be your husband. What if this soul tie gets so strong you have a hard time moving on and miss out on your husband? Will you blame God because you chose to stay and pass up each EXIT to leave?
God gives us plenty time and chances to get it right and escape. Its time to move on. Its time to elevate. U deserve to be called wife not his forever girlfriend. The choice is yours.
~~~~~~My experience~~~~~
I've played that role of being a girlfriend who offered benefits of a marriage my body, shared my home, my money, encouraged him, helped him and loved him. My compromising left me broken and lost. Its even affected my children but by the Grace of God I'm getting things in order. God filled the void that no man could. In my world marriage was foreign language due to bad experiences and no one truly believed in it. I followed suite and didn't believe in marriage either. In my world you were lucky to get a decent guy. Decent only meant he paid bills and it didn't matter if you weren't happy or unequally yoked or if he loved the Lord. If he paid bills you kept him regardless if he beats you, belittled you, or slept around and hardly came home. The miserable life. The people who I knew that were married would even tell me to never marry saying, "it's not worth it." That hurts.
Now even today women are still settling and living this way. His "forever girlfriend." Building soul ties with men or a man who means you no good and is blocking your blessing. Real love. You deserve real LOVE. Put down the worldly principles and pick up kingdom principles. There is still hope. Don't enter another relationship until you are Whole One Complete and Healed from your past. You deserve to be a Wife not a boo thang, girlfriend or baby mama. It starts with putting GOD first!
Love is a beautiful thing and we won't experience if we keep being afraid and settling for less than Gods Best. No matter who you are or what your past and even current situation is u deserve Gods Best but its up to YOU to believe it!
1 Corinthians 13:5
Love is patient. Love is kind.
In love there is NO need to rush. Lust rushes everything. Love is a good thing. Its time women realize him beating you, cheating on you, manipulating you, neglecting you is NOT love no matter how many times he apologizes or how good the making up may feel.
Its time to breakaway!!!
No more excuses!!
God gives us plenty time and chances to get it right and escape. Its time to move on. Its time to elevate. U deserve to be called wife not his forever girlfriend. The choice is yours.
~~~~~~My experience~~~~~
I've played that role of being a girlfriend who offered benefits of a marriage my body, shared my home, my money, encouraged him, helped him and loved him. My compromising left me broken and lost. Its even affected my children but by the Grace of God I'm getting things in order. God filled the void that no man could. In my world marriage was foreign language due to bad experiences and no one truly believed in it. I followed suite and didn't believe in marriage either. In my world you were lucky to get a decent guy. Decent only meant he paid bills and it didn't matter if you weren't happy or unequally yoked or if he loved the Lord. If he paid bills you kept him regardless if he beats you, belittled you, or slept around and hardly came home. The miserable life. The people who I knew that were married would even tell me to never marry saying, "it's not worth it." That hurts.
Now even today women are still settling and living this way. His "forever girlfriend." Building soul ties with men or a man who means you no good and is blocking your blessing. Real love. You deserve real LOVE. Put down the worldly principles and pick up kingdom principles. There is still hope. Don't enter another relationship until you are Whole One Complete and Healed from your past. You deserve to be a Wife not a boo thang, girlfriend or baby mama. It starts with putting GOD first!
Love is a beautiful thing and we won't experience if we keep being afraid and settling for less than Gods Best. No matter who you are or what your past and even current situation is u deserve Gods Best but its up to YOU to believe it!
1 Corinthians 13:5
Love is patient. Love is kind.
In love there is NO need to rush. Lust rushes everything. Love is a good thing. Its time women realize him beating you, cheating on you, manipulating you, neglecting you is NOT love no matter how many times he apologizes or how good the making up may feel.
Its time to breakaway!!!
No more excuses!!
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