A Letter To My Sisters

I'm seeing a lot of border line prostitutes today. No ladies I'm not calling you a prostitute. You’re the daughter of a King. I am talking about your actions.

1. Posing half naked on line.

2. Sleeping around with randoms.

3. Compromising and lowering your standards just to have the presence of a man.

4. Only being interested in a man based on the job, status, financial security he has, and material possessions.

All it takes is one slick talking fat wallet holding man to come and sweep you off your feet. One night of loneliness deceit can creep right in. I pray you wake up and stop selling yourself short. You belong to the Most High God. Your body is a temple. Your time is just too precious.

But today you’re doing everything for fun instead of for a fee. Then there is some already sleeping around for rent money. Scratch that for nails and hair money. It's sad but when your whole crew is doing it you think its okay. It's not!!! I hear the conversations on the job, at the beauty and nail salon, and even on social media. You may even think its love but underneath what you call love is lust. Real Love is commitment under God. Lust has no commitment and it hinders you from coming to God. Like most of the relationships between men and women today. These men are not in a hurry to marry when we give up everything without a commitment.

You see I was sold a dream and I bought it. I tried to return it but there is no refund or take backs. But the only option is to die. Right now you’re at the wits end and feeling dead already. I don't mean a physically death. I mean a spiritual death. You know, when your body is there but your mind is somewhere else. When your heart is not in it anymore but you just keep going through the motions thinking this is it for you. When you die spiritually you have a choice to stay dead or be born again through Jesus Christ. Money can't save you. A new man can't save you. A job can't save you. ONLY JESUS CAN.

When I was being trafficked I had wifeys who have been in "the game" rather correct legal term "trafficked" for 10yrs or more. I learned that not everybody gets out and it's not because they can't. It's not even because they just don't want to. When you purchase something it's yours. They bought the dream so it's theirs now. They've been brainwashed and live their lives according to today's pimp culture. They've tried to leave. I now know Jesus is the only way. I say that because even after leaving I still carried the same mentality I had while in the game. Only Jesus was the light and the life line that restored and redeemed all of me. Most importantly my mind. From my own personal experience you see even after I walked away from the lifestyle I found myself still in very compromising relationships. Why? Pimp culture is now accepted. Listen to the music you listen to. Degrading women is the new normal. Ladies were allowing it. Look at all the explicit photos we share with the world.

You see I don't want you to go through all I went through but your on the road that leads to that and don't even know it. You may not have a pimp but you attract men who only misuse you and don't take you seriously. You attract men who seem to only want to sleep with you or make you his girlfriend or baby mama but never make you his wife. Maybe you've bought the lie that marriage is played out! That's a lie straight from the pits of hell!

When I say prostitute people jump to a woman walking the street which some still do. Today prostitutes are in the hottest clubs, in VIP, lying up with "superstars" or "hood stars". Today prostitutes don't have to stand on a corner. I know some who work in corporate America. Nurses too. I just have to be real. Webster dictionary defines prostitution as,

"To offer sex indiscriminately especially for money." "To devote ones talent to corrupt or unworthy purpose."

UNWORTHY PURPOSE: When your boo thang comes by would you say the purpose is worthy of God or unworthy? I know to you “it feels good" " you love him" or you just don't want to be lonely. But does the relationship truly glorify God? We are here to please God not ourselves or someone else. If he loved you that much he would honor you under God and make you his wife. Your his one and only right? He says he isn’t going anywhere so why not make it official?

LADIES,

Let me be the big or little sister you never had not the jealous or mean one. But the one who wants you to succeed. Not the one who wants to steal your shine but actually wants to see you shine brighter. Let me be the friend you never had. Not the one who talks behind your back but the one who is bold enough and humble enough to pull you to the side and be real with you and say, “sis this isn’t the truth. I can't let you go out like that."

Let me remind you that your beauty is from the inside out and we don't need to see your backside on social sites. Yes I'm sure you look nice but how does your heart feel? Yes everybody looks to be doing it. I did it too but I didn't have a big or little sister around to stand up for what's right either. I didn't know I had a Father who truly cared and loved me for who I am and not what I do. Judge you? I can't. I've been there done it and some but I can stand up and be real with you. You don't have to stay stuck in that dead end relationship. There is hope.

I know your "doing you" but to be honest you’re only "hurting you." I know you don't have the husband today but what if he was your friend right now would he be happy with what he saw on your newsfeed? Probably not. How about what goes on in your life off the social sites? Probably not. The image you portray to the world today is it that of a wife or that of a....?

So why keep doing the most for the least?

I know you want to change and don't know where to start. I was there. You start right where you are. Accept Christ and surrender and he will do the rest!

If you have already accepted Christ and find yourself still struggling. Go to 1 John 1:9. Believe and accept forgiveness and try again. But my dear sisters you don't have to keep conforming to the patterns of this world. I'm telling you God has you and he won't let you down. Trust and believe and he will give you the desires of your heart. First you got to get rid of the old junk. You’re the daughter of a King now!!!!!

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